The Golden Rules
- Be specific. "I love music" = boring. "I cried at a Bon Iver concert" = interesting.
- Show don't tell. Don't say you're funny. Be funny.
- Give them a hook. Make it easy for someone to comment on.
- Avoid clichés. If you've seen it 100 times, so have they.
Best Prompts (And How to Answer Them)
"I'm convinced that..."
❌ Generic:
"...I'm the best cuddler you'll ever meet"
✓ Stands out:
"...breakfast tacos can cure any hangover. I have data to back this up."
Why it works: Specific, funny, and gives them something to agree/disagree with.
"A life goal of mine"
❌ Generic:
"...is to travel the world"
✓ Stands out:
"...is to be the reason someone says 'that's him, officer' but in a fun way"
Why it works: Unexpected twist on a serious prompt. Shows personality.
"The way to win me over is"
❌ Generic:
"...just be yourself"
✓ Stands out:
"...strong opinions about pizza toppings. I need someone who will fight for their beliefs."
Why it works: Playful, gives them an easy conversation starter.
"I go crazy for"
❌ Generic:
"...dogs, tacos, and The Office"
✓ Stands out:
"...anyone who can explain a niche topic for 20 minutes. Tell me about your weird hobby."
Why it works: Invites them to share something interesting about themselves.
"My most irrational fear"
❌ Generic:
"...spiders"
✓ Stands out:
"...that everyone at the gym is secretly judging my form (they are, right?)"
Why it works: Relatable, self-deprecating, shows self-awareness.
"Dating me is like"
❌ Generic:
"...having a best friend and a lover"
✓ Stands out:
"...watching a Marvel movie. A little chaotic, surprisingly emotional, and there's always a post-credits scene."
Why it works: Creative analogy that hints at personality without being generic.
Prompts to Avoid
- ❌ "I'm looking for..." — Comes off as demanding
- ❌ "If you can't handle me at my worst..." — Red flag energy
- ❌ "Just ask!" — Lazy and gives nothing to work with
- ❌ Anything negative about dating apps — We're all here, it's fine
- ❌ Lists of requirements — Feels like a job application
Pro Tip: The Conversation Starter Prompt
Make at least one prompt extremely easy to comment on:
- “Debate me on: pineapple on pizza is elite”
- “I bet you can't beat me at: Mario Kart (I take this very seriously)”
- “A review by my mom: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 'Very handsome and calls sometimes'”
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